High Expectations

I once read a front page article in a magazine about the science of failure. One of the interesting ironies I remembered in the article is that failure often helps people and organizations become better and often have more positive lessons to learn than success does. In fact, success can often blind us to factors that were never in our control in the first place, but we take credit anyway (like a good economy!).

Yesterday's Prayerwalk and Harvest Fest was a successful Kingdom Causes event as any, but we also realized a factor beyond our control was the weather--a strong rain storm went through before our event--and how much that kept people inside, especially our senior neighbors who had said they would come. Quite a few were sick too!

Also, we realized that perhaps we were competing with the Church of the City rather than truly collaborating on this Halloween weekend--so many other "harvest fests" including the church who hosted the site who just had theirs the night before. Why not hold this event embedded within another congregation's event? Or better yet, pool our resources in the ministerial association and do one large event for the community?

Finally, I had high expectations for getting people out from the community who weren't part of our existing network to this event, and there were a few. But the truth of it is that we never really promoted it in the city nor did we really engage community members who would be interested. I felt a bit like we did the typical church outreach event which is attractional: "build it and they will come." But then we don't really allow the community to be at that table to help in that planning process.

"We're still learning," as my co-worker said. Not reaching our high expectations is a great learning opportunity. Extending ourselves some grace in the process helps us not to navel gaze but learn and persevere for the next time!